tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48486683705261897552024-03-12T23:39:37.652-07:00Fit Opera SingerAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-29990574684953015612016-07-25T11:45:00.002-07:002016-07-25T11:45:19.450-07:00Hard times...why doesn't anyone talk about it?<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;">I'm just going to come out and be real, </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>I am currently experiencing one of the hardest times in my life. </b>Most of us do NOT TALK ABOUT THIS and post away on social media like everything in our lives are perfect, and we are happy as can be with the way things are going.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am one of them. I too fall into the trap of posting the BEST pictures with the best angles, and the most FUN parts of my day. Partly, believe that there has to be positivity and HOPE in the world, and on social media.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But I also try my hardest to be authentic, as I have a lot people that follow my journey. Social media is a weird place because no one wants their drama being exposed to everyone, but at the same time, to go on as if everything is just perfect is inauthentic, leading you to feel worse off than before.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So here it is: This past year (and maybe even over a year) I have been STUCK. I was not feeling like myself, I was passing through the days sort of going through the motions and half-assing projects, not eating the way I knew I should be eating, and struggling to get up on some days. I have had health struggles, financial struggles (with student loan debt that would make you CRY), relationship struggles as well as anxiety and depression. THAT is real. I am NOT perfect. I do NOT have the perfect life. I (like so many of you), am going through times that frankly are HARD and I lay awake at night wondering how I got here as I sweat and toss and turn.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Life is not about perfection. It is about the journey to discovering YOURSELF, as completely and as authentically as possible. So I may be dealing with a boat load of CRAP right now, but one thing I know about myself? <b>I want to HELP people, and THAT is why I am sharing this,</b> in hopes that it will strike a cord with someone else that needs to hear it. I have found strength in helping others, and that in turn, demands that I work on myself.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have found tools of my own that have helped me cope, lift myself up, and FREE myself from these feelings that I want to share with you. Even though I am still in the middle of my own struggle on a daily basis, my commitment is to reach out and find others that are suffering and need to be uplifted, as so many have already done for me. </span></span><br />
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So what are you going through? You or a family member are sick, relationships are suffering, maybe you're hurting, you are in financial crisis, or you lost your job or loved one. Your days are dark and heavy and you are feeling hopeless and unmotivated.
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirvyAeOqD0s3dENPAEzONbGlWBzVNWWcTFed7eb03211a1FIbP7IuP2a3l76nFIFtMBANJu1FtBrbk_PMvJLm7am33lqnZSiOC8d2kdrSrK2pYKrY21VcRhyphenhyphenLKxHSyxArfjTxDLFtM_HQ/s1600/slide+3.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirvyAeOqD0s3dENPAEzONbGlWBzVNWWcTFed7eb03211a1FIbP7IuP2a3l76nFIFtMBANJu1FtBrbk_PMvJLm7am33lqnZSiOC8d2kdrSrK2pYKrY21VcRhyphenhyphenLKxHSyxArfjTxDLFtM_HQ/s320/slide+3.jpg" width="320" /></a></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what will you do in reaction of those hard times? Here are my 7 tips to overcoming trials (ps I am starting a free group on facebook that will dig further into these elements for anyone that wants to join, message me)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>1. Set a time limit </b>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You need to deal with your situation and the emotions you are feeling that surround it. However, dwelling on it for hours, days or months on end will not do much for you. Set a designated amount of time for which to grieve, FEEL, cry, scream or deal with the fundamentals of the situation. </span></span><br />
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I set an alarm so I know my allotted amount of time to grieve is up, and when I hear that sound it means I'm done for that session. I must go on. You must go on. Because I am worth it. Because YOU are worth it.
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2. Keep perspective</b>
There have been good times before. Remember those!! Remember that you have had strength and that power and you WILL have it again. Do not forget gratitude. Every morning, force yourself to write down 3 things that you are grateful for. Even if they are small things like the fact you have a roof over your head, food on the table and the sun is shining that day. Each day observe 3 new things and make them stronger and stronger.
As a recovering pessimist, I can attest to the power of positive thinking. When you spend your days thinking negatively or saying "I can't" or constantly worrying about your situation, that situation will get worse. When things used to go wrong in my life, I would make excuses as to why I could not do the things I should or had goaled myself to do. Having changed my mindset, I realized that as soon as you start training your brain to notice the beauty around you, and to be grateful, things begin to get brighter.
<b>3. Take action</b>
You feel out of sorts and your normal task seems so daunting. Just getting out of bed at a decent hour seems like the biggest task. I GET IT.
But the more you allow yourself to fall into this trap, <i>the longer you will remain there.
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So take action and set 3 goals for your day. Depending on the day, maybe the goals will be to get up and shower, go to the grocery store and eat a meal. The next it may be a bit more ambitious. As each day passes you it will get easier and these</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"> action will propel you forward.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">
I can't tell you how important it is to take action<i> right away</i> to keep yourself moving forward. The action will ignite you, keep you feeling accomplished and release happiness into your brain.
<b>4. Ask yourself "What should I be learning?"
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You could ask yourself "why is this happening to me?" "Why does everything bad happen to me?" "Why is the world against me?" </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">OR</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You can learn from it. Everything in life has a lesson that you can learn from if you actively look for it. Be open and grow from it!
<b>5. Re-Focus</b> </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Focus not on your fear of the unknown and what is happening NOW, but instead focus on what could go RIGHT. When we accept that we all must endure times of difficulty we realize that this is a necessary part of life. In his book "Breakout", Joel osteen talks about getting ready for a tidal wave. Whatever you believe in (God, higher power or a source energy) is moving things out of your way to make room for something even greater, something beyond what you could have even fathomed. Though it doesn't seem that way right now, if you have <b>unshakable faith and belief</b>, the right people, opportunities and clarities will come to you.
So re-focus. Focus on what will come, what doors will be opened for you and bask in the beauty that is the future.
<b>6. Act like you don't feel</b>
It is easy to get sucked into the feeling sorry for ourselves mode. When we do, we exude negativity everywhere. It shows up in our posture, our conversations, the way we move, our faces and then it begins to manifest and transfer into the reality of our lives.
I believe that I used to manifest all the negative things that happened in my life. My endless negativity, fear, excuses and complaints resulted in <i>exactly</i> what I was worried about. My career didn't take off the way I had hoped, friendships and relationships suffered because I didn't add value to their lives and was constantly insecure, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, I was overweight and felt unattractive and useless. I now OWN that I manifested those things myself with negativity.
NOW, with complete transformation of my thoughts, I'm becoming clear about what I want and the things I need to do to get there and my life is manifesting in a different, positive, fulfilling direction.
So if you're fearful, or hurting or anxious or worried, get UP and walk out of your house with you shoulders back, your head high and a smile on your face. When you start with your exterior and walk with confidence, you begin to change your thoughts. When we change our thoughts then what we project manifests itself into our reality and becomes our truth. And that brings me to
<b>7. Know your "Why"</b>
Be honest with yourself for a second. Have you ever really thought about what you want out of life. I mean really and truly sat and thought in detail about what your ideal day would look like. Where you would live, who you would surround yourself with, what you would do with your time, how much money you would have, what your family would look like etc.</span></span><br />
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A while ago I spent around 7-8 hours thinking, visualizing and writing down my "why", and what I wanted for my life. It is so clear that I can see, feel, smell and project myself into that life.
Because I became so clear, it started happening. The clarity allowed me to make changes that needed to be made. Some were inspiring and positive and others, are hard as hell, but there was no going back or stopping me once I was that specific.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what is YOUR "why"? I challenge you to sit and think and find your purpose. Declare it out loud with everything you have in you. Your purpose must be so exciting and so inspiring to you that NOTHING will prevent you from fulfilling that. When you visualize your goals and write them down it WILL begin to happen and when you are in times a trial, you will be able to focus on it, and never give up.
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Want to work on these steps and have a group of people that you can turn to?</b> If you are ready to start doing the work on YOU, I am ready to do it with you. Just reach out and message me to join my FREE group on facebook that will cover these steps and much more (or send me an email jennyabeauregard@gmail.com).</span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-41784666037054641792015-07-23T13:08:00.000-07:002015-07-23T13:08:07.449-07:00ANNOUNCING my surprise....<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCqOzkKC2suELkQDE3s5AkfEBbJorbbrUjFK-gGgEfzx3csL0WR9ZhAiY3qG8fl8HmigyT-RM5-L1enH_MU5sFVbeKjo4RLRNyWiMwZ1EZ4RonyOJI6O4upbScKXcq16oYdmULAIcRoNQ/s1600/11774370_10100452685955837_1803136575_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCqOzkKC2suELkQDE3s5AkfEBbJorbbrUjFK-gGgEfzx3csL0WR9ZhAiY3qG8fl8HmigyT-RM5-L1enH_MU5sFVbeKjo4RLRNyWiMwZ1EZ4RonyOJI6O4upbScKXcq16oYdmULAIcRoNQ/s400/11774370_10100452685955837_1803136575_n.jpg" width="300" /></a>ok ok. It has been EXTREMELY sad and heartbreaking to lose my Theo. He was everything to me. He was the first pet I ever owned, and losing him was so much more painful than I ever imagined. That dog was there for me through so much. I have been crying, praying, having nightmares and feeling so lost and sad.<br />
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I suppose everyone deals with loss differently. My friends Jenn and Mike who I am currently traveling shared with me that when they lost their dog tragically a while back, they immediately went out and got a new pet. I admit that when they first told me this, I was a bit horrified. I in no way was of the mindset that I could get a new dog. I had a list a reasons:<br />
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-betraying Theo and not honoring him<br />
-I travel a lot and am currently on the road and taking care of a puppy would be difficult<br />
-I am homeless until further notice and it is not the right time to train a new dog<br />
-I was worried about what other people would think of my moving on so soon<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Laying in my lap</td></tr>
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But then Mike told me his friend had teacup Yorkie available and asked if I wanted to go play with him. I figured, well at least it will lift my spirits and give me the puppy love I was craving. So I reluctantly went along.<br />
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On the way, we got caught in a hail storm. This was particularly funny because we were in Mike's VERY nice Corvette and we had the top down. We had to pull over under a bridge and the cars were spraying water all into the car. I was laughing so hard at Mike trying to put up the roof and complaining that his car had never touched water. Through the laughing, I realized that my happiness is so important. The laughter released endorphins and I decided to be more open to the new puppy idea. If he made me laugh it may be worth all my initial objections.<br />
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<br class="Apple-interchange-newline" /> When I met him, he was placed in my arms and immediately took the same position that Theo always laid in. My heart melted. I put him down to play with him and he began hopping around and running into walls as he chased toys...and I laughed and smiled. I didn't notice that I was until 10 minutes into it. That was it. It was all I needed to proceed.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeXquMQigPZ4RkyW6lS5eg3p3S4IE60-oQk0IC9sFOYFcZUZu3em6r-1IpX_VUYpoGCBUE5RmNjeXXrMvp_bFVk-OBiF00l3sUdDLlCIsUBq8Ym9wEUTCHxuvkSb8ps4I-PAeDm9jy6Pk/s1600/11778190_10100452686075597_294873066_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeXquMQigPZ4RkyW6lS5eg3p3S4IE60-oQk0IC9sFOYFcZUZu3em6r-1IpX_VUYpoGCBUE5RmNjeXXrMvp_bFVk-OBiF00l3sUdDLlCIsUBq8Ym9wEUTCHxuvkSb8ps4I-PAeDm9jy6Pk/s320/11778190_10100452686075597_294873066_n.jpg" width="240" /></a>I want to announce a new addition to the family. Though he can in no way replace Theo, he is providing me with so much love, happiness and comfort as I grieve my loss and he is a very special puppy. He plays, lays on my lap, is friendly and fun and gives kisses when I need it. Hard to believe he is only 5 months old since he is so well behaved.<br />
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All I know is, he makes me happy. Happiness is worth it. Companionship is worth it. Theo lives on in me (and MANY others) always. I look forward to sharing his journey with you.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-70587930363075093252015-07-20T18:34:00.003-07:002015-07-20T18:38:53.404-07:00Stage 1 of grieving Theo<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Today I lost my puppy. The only thing I know how to do to cope is write down my thoughts and share them. So I thought I would share my journey on my blog so that I can process. Theo has been my biggest supporter and companion for the past 8 years. That little angel was by me through so much. He has traveled with me, been my companion through some of the hardest points in my life. He sat patiently with me through chemo-therapy and the many sick days in bed, lived through MANY moves across the country in several different apartments, and been a happy constant presence in my life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Some may say that he was just a dog, but I cannot explain the unconditional love he had for me, and i for him. He was happy to see me every time i came into a room. That constant support for the past 8 years has been magical.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">My heart hurts and feelings of guilt over not protecting him are plaguing me. In dealing with immense grief over this, I am trying remember his little wagging tail, his excitement every time I walked into a room, the joy he brought to myself and so many other people that he met, and what it felt like to be loved so unconditionally. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Theo was the first dog I've ever owned, and if you know anything about me, you know I love animals. I have always watched friends who have to put down their dogs and though I truly felt for them, I could never imagine how much pain they were actually in. The decision to not proceed with his surgeries was devastating. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So what to do? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-Allow myself to grieve</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-remember all the beauty and joy he brought to me for 8 years</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-have strength that I did the right thing for him</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-feel grateful and lucky to have had time in my life</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-find joy in his memory</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">-realize that I have so MUCH love, support and friendship and be grateful for the amazing people in my life: family, friends, my Beachbody family. People <i>all over </i>the world that are there for me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">No matter how devastating everything happens for a reason. I know Theo was not taken from me without a greater cause. So for now, I will sleep, wake up, shower, eat and bask in his memory and the unconditional love he provided me. My biggest takeaway being that he wasn't just <i>my</i> dog. He belonged to many many people and was loved my many. He lit of the faces of everyone that saw him even strangers. He will be forever loved.</span><br />
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-1 Portobello Mushroom</div>
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-1/4 of canned chicken</div>
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Pre-heat oven to 375. Prepare mushrooms by wiping the tops off with a damp cloth and popping out the stem (if you wish you may chop up the stems and put on top of the pizza). Drizzle Olive oil, garlic, pepper on the bottom of the mushroom . Sprinkle on cheese and chicken, paprika and any other desired ingredients. Place on a cookie sheet with a wire rack, or if you don't have a rack you can make a foil ring to place your mushroom on. This will help it cook evenly and prevent sogginess. Bake for 20-25 minutes, remove from oven and drizzle with your favorite hot sauce.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-21533399816551059592015-06-23T08:07:00.001-07:002015-06-23T08:16:52.658-07:00How do I stay strong when I feel so weak? <span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;">So you are in hard times. </span><br />
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You or a family member are sick, relationships are suffering, maybe you're hurting, you are in financial crisis, or you lost your job or loved one. Your days are dark and heavy and you are feeling hopeless and unmotivated.
Reality is that you will come into hard times. It is natural.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> So what will you do in reaction of those hard times? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>1. Set a time limit </b>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You need to deal with your situation and the emotions you are feeling that surround it. However, dwelling on it for hours, days or months on end will not do much for you. Set a designated amount of time for which to grieve, FEEL, cry, scream or deal with the fundamentals of the situation. </span></span><br />
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I set an alarm so I know my allotted amount of time to grieve is up, and when I hear that sound it means I'm done for that session. I must go on. You must go on. Because I am worth it. Because YOU are worth it.
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2. Keep perspective</b>
There have been good times before. Remember those!! Remember that you have had strength and that power and you WILL have it again. Do not forget gratitude. Every morning, force yourself to write down 3 things that you are grateful for. Even if they are small things like the fact you have a roof over your head, food on the table and the sun is shining that day. Each day observe 3 new things and make them stronger and stronger.
As a recovering pessimist, I can attest to the power of positive thinking. When you spend your days thinking negatively or saying "I can't" or constantly worrying about your situation, that situation will get worse. When things used to go wrong in my life, I would make excuses as to why I could not do the things I should or had goaled myself to do. Having changed my mindset, I realized that as soon as you start training your brain to notice the beauty around you, and to be grateful, things begin to get brighter.
<b>3. Take action</b>
You feel out of sorts and your normal task seems so daunting. Just getting out of bed at a decent hour seems like the biggest task. I GET IT.
But the more you allow yourself to fall into this trap, <i>the longer you will remain there.
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So take action and set 3 goals for your day. Depending on the day, maybe the goals will be to get up and shower, go to the grocery store and eat a meal. The next it may be a bit more ambitious. As each day passes you it will get easier and these</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"> action will propel you forward.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">
I can't tell you how important it is to take action<i> right away</i> to keep yourself moving forward. The action will ignite you, keep you feeling accomplished and release happiness into your brain.
<b>4. Ask yourself "What should I be learning?"
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You could ask yourself "why is this happening to me?" "Why does everything bad happen to me?" "Why is the world against me?" </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">OR</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You can learn from it. Everything in life has a lesson that you can learn from if you actively look for it. Be open and grow from it!
<b>5. Re-Focus</b> </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Focus not on your fear of the unknown and what is happening NOW, but instead focus on what could go RIGHT. When we accept that we all must endure times of difficulty we realize that this is a necessary part of life. In his book "Breakout", Joel osteen talks about getting ready for a tidal wave. Whatever you believe in (God, higher power or a source energy) is moving things out of your way to make room for something even greater, something beyond what you could have even fathomed. Though it doesn't seem that way right now, if you have <b>unshakable faith and belief</b>, the right people, opportunities and clarities will come to you.
So re-focus. Focus on what will come, what doors will be opened for you and bask in the beauty that is the future.
<b>6. Act like you don't feel</b>
It is easy to get sucked into the feeling sorry for ourselves mode. When we do, we exude negativity everywhere. It shows up in our posture, our conversations, the way we move, our faces and then it begins to manifest and transfer into the reality of our lives.
I believe that I used to manifest all the negative things that happened in my life. My endless negativity, fear, excuses and complaints resulted in <i>exactly</i> what I was worried about. My career didn't take off the way I had hoped, friendships and relationships suffered because I didn't add value to their lives and was constantly insecure, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, I was overweight and felt unattractive and useless. I now OWN that I manifested those things myself with negativity.
NOW, with complete transformation of my thoughts, I'm clear about what I want and the things I need to do to get there and my life is manifesting in a different, positive, fulfilling direction.
So if you're fearful, or hurting or anxious or worried, get UP and walk out of your house with you shoulders back, your head high and a smile on your face. When you start with your exterior and walk with confidence, you begin to change your thoughts. When we change our thoughts then what we project manifests itself into our reality and becomes our truth. And that brings me to
<b>7. Know your "Why"</b>
Be honest with yourself for a second. Have you ever really thought about what you want out of life. I mean really and truly sat and thought in detail about what your ideal day would look like. Where you would live, who you would surround yourself with, what you would do with your time, how much money you would have, what your family would look like etc.</span></span><br />
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Two months ago I spent around 7-8 hours thinking, visualizing and writing down my "why", and what I wanted for my life. It is so clear that I can see, feel, smell and project myself into that life.
Because I became so clear, it started happening. The clarity allowed me to make changes that needed to be made. Some were inspiring and positive and others, are hard as hell, but there was no going back or stopping me once I was that specific.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #373e4d; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what is YOUR "why"? I challenge you to sit and think and find your purpose. Declare it out loud with everything you have in you. Your purpose must be so exciting and so inspiring to you that NOTHING will prevent you from fulfilling that. When you visualize your goals and write them down it WILL begin to happen and when you are in times a trial, you will be able to focus on it, and never give up.
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Today I went to the store and bought these shoes. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> Just because...I wanted new shoes. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> 9 months ago this wouldn't have been the case. Because of this little side thing I do, I can splurge once in a while. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> Just because...</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-75951367201835909612015-05-22T15:14:00.000-07:002015-05-22T15:19:57.326-07:00How I let my thoughts ruin, and then save my life....Gosh. How far we come in life. Truly everything happens for a reason. I remember this month of May back in 2010. I had a complete hatred for myself. Lacking in self confidence, hated my body, was sick ALL THE TIME, felt I was good at NOTHING. On top of it, I was sick. I was in and out of chemotherapy treatments for ovarian cancer, and in COMPLETE denial. I hid everything as much as I possible could, and crept into a little hole of despair. One afternoon I remember looking in the mirror at myself for the the first time in a while. I really wouldn't allow myself to look very long back then. But this moment I did. I didn't understand how my life had reached this point. I didn't understand why it was so unfair and out to get me. I had an obsession with fast food and I blamed everything on the fact that I had depression, anxiety and cancer. It become a ridiculous crutch for which I used as an excuse for everything. It was the reason for my failures and the reasons I couldn't function as a normal adult. My mind was poisoned with negativity, self loathing and I hated the world and it seemed to hate me. It was an ultimate low and I had finally hit a rock bottom enough to make a change.<br />
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Have you ever heard of the compound effect? It is<span class="_Tgc"> the principle of
reaping huge rewards from a series of small, smart choices. Our present
reality is an outcome of the little, seemingly innocuous decisions that
have added up to your current bank balance, waist line, business
success, relationship status, etc."</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">This compound effect can change your life for the better or for the worst. The first half of my life I let the latter take over. But around this time in 2010 I began to change my thoughts. It was a SLOW SLOW SLOW process. You get to the point where you just cannot live a certain way any longer. You are forced to change or continue to disappoint yourself. It began with my physical appearance. I began to realize that I could not function at the weight I was at and I hated myself for it. But I slowly changed my thoughts to decide that I indeed was WORTH a change. That I COULD be that success story. And so I changed my thoughts.</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">I began to realize that WHAT I put in my body and what I did with it affected the way it functioned (DUH!). So I began to workout and slowly change my nutrition and I allowed myself to grow mentally to be disciplined enough to change.</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">But after all that I still disliked myself. I did not think I was enough. You see, I had always envisioned that I would do something GREAT. I was not near living up to that. I was still "a failed singer", and negativity surrounded my thoughts day after day. I remember slowly making decisions to knock it off. It took YEARS. I began to focus on that physical transformation. My cancer went in and out and ironically coming during times of deep negativity on my part. With cancer came the anxiety and depression. However, my weight was coming off, and I was for the first time, becoming consistent with diet and exercise. </span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">And i began to change. Slowly over YEARS I lost weight and suddenly I looked in the mirror and saw someone I could get on board with. In that SAME month I was pronounced in remission from Ovarian cancer. The SAME month that my thoughts about myself began to change. The same month that I began to see a glimpse of what I knew I could be.</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">It was still a long road. and it wasn't until I started coaching others on their goals that I began reading personal development. I read them every day. They have made me powerful, and I realized that I HAVE THE POWER TO CONTROL MY THOUGHTS AND MY LIFE! I get to choose happiness. I get to choose LIFE or depression and anxiety. I had made the choice to let me life become what it had become. It was all on ME.</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">I am posting this workout video from this morning, it is called Friday FIght from Insanity Max 30. The workout is ridiculous, one of the hardest I've ever done. I did this workout this morning with very little sleep and a million things happening in my life that could have pulled me away. But the goal of the workout is to have your MIND take control over your body. When your body wants to stop, it is up to your mind to feed it life and tell it to keep going. You can see at the end of this video that my mind was fighting it. FIGHTING my body that wanted to quit. I realized today that this workout is a lot like my life. I got to choose my fate. It is not always easy, but I have to get up and push and CHOOSE success and happiness. </span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">Now I am powerful. My mind is full of love, and I see people as good and full of life. I see hope, and I feel alive. I am trying things I would never try before. I have proved to myself that I am capable of anything. This credit goes to me. I am finally standing up and claiming my self worth. I am standing up and claiming that I have VALUE, and I can choose my fate. I choose to not let anxiety effect me. I choose to be the best version of myself. I can look at myself in the mirror and be accepting of ME (though we always have more things to work on). The compound effect rewarded me greatly. Those little steps over time have saved my mind and my life. </span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">So change your mindset. Start small and see the fruitful rewards you can reap from loving yourself.</span><br />
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<span class="_Tgc">Email me: Jennyabeauregard@gmail.com </span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-73435926980535827592015-03-15T07:03:00.002-07:002015-03-15T07:03:34.939-07:00Addicted to fast food: intimate stories of my weight gain<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">About 6 years ago when we were living in Tucson, I was at my heaviest
weight. I had gone from 112 pounds in undergrad to 175-180 pounds (and that is only when I actually weighed myself). The funny thing is, I didn't even notice I had gained the weight. I knew I was a bit chunkier than usual, but when I looked in the mirror, my mind played tricks on me, and I was somehow convinced that I wasn't that far off from the 112 pound frame I once carried. I think that I chose to ignore it. I pushed the weight gain so deep within me because I was utterly convinced it didn't matter to me how I looked, and how I felt. I pretended to be ok with it, and I think after so long of telling myself "I am not overweight", "I am healthy", or "size doesn't matter to me, I actually believed it. It didn't matter how much more weight I had to gain.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I could insert a paragraph here about how looks do not matter and it is about the INSIDE etc, but I am not going to and pretend that I do not care about the way I look. I care now, and I cared then, but chose not to admit it to ANYONE, especially myself. We all care. I think we care so much because when we are ACTUALLY confident in our outside appearance, it REALLY DOES HELP with the inside (for me anyways). My mother would tell me she admired me for my confidence even through the weight gain. But inside I was not. Far from it. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b>Here is what an average day would look like for me: </b>I would wake up
in the morning and look forward only to the food in my day. I would plan out where I
would eat and WHAT I would eat and that was the only thing that got me
out of bed. I would drive to McDonald's and stop for lunch,
order a Coke or a Milkshake (or both) Fries and Chicken Nuggets (the 10
piece). I would eat it in the car in the parking lot before my classes
started. Then I would throw away the evidence and pop in a breath mint,
and go to school.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> Then the whole day I would look forward to what I would eat for dinner.</span></span><br />
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On the way home, I would stop at Wendy's for dinner, get a double
cheeseburger and french fries and another coke and then the same
routine. I wouldn't want my Boyfriend to know, so I would throw away the
packaging, spray an air freshener, and pop another breath mint. </span></span><br />
<span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> AND THEN I would go home and eat dinner WITH my boyfriend. </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Not to mention the bagels, the sammy's the ice cream trips etc etc etc. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;">YUCK. Do you think I just ate away my insecurities? I do, but I also think I wasn't well rounded enough in my life to have anything else to look forward to.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">My insecurities stemmed from unpleasantness I felt physically and mentally. I remember being so extremely uncomfortable especially because
it was HOT in Arizona. I had to wear shorts under my dresses so that my thighs
didn't chafe and get raw. Even though it was hot, I had to wear Spanx
under my clothes to suck in my love handles just to fit into them, as I
couldn't really afford to keeping buying new clothes from the weight I
was gaining. I was hot all the time. I remember once someone very close to me suggested "maybe if you lost some weight, you wouldn't feel so hot all the time." That STUNG. At the time, I had a wild temper, and I retorted back with something about not being fat and stormed off.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">In another instance, a good friend (and now a best friend) pointed out something to me that was completely embarrassing. I cringe as I write this...I was SO UNAWARE of my body growing and of my size, that I neglected to adequately adjust specific articles of clothing...in this case, my bra size. Having gained some boobs (YAY!) from the weight gain, my friend said to me" girl, you are wearing the wrong bra size. It is way too small. You need to go get remeasured." I was COMPLETELY MORTIFIED. I was angry at her, and angry with the world. So, I reluctantly went with her to the mall to get remeasured. The size I was presently wearing was a 34 A and I measured at a 36 D!!! This completely shocked me and I believe it was the first step towards accepting my weight gain. I cannot thank my friend enough for her frankness. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Even though I hid it from the world and from myself, I felt completely unattractive. I didn't ev<span class="text_exposed_show">en bother to dress up because I thought, "what is the point?". I would counter that by thinking "I am not really that big. Everything is fine". It was a CONSTANT mind game. I would trick myself into thinking I was fine and then ALL the signs would point to unhealthiness and weight gain. I ignored all the signs that my body was failing me:</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-constant low energy</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-napping 2-3 hours a day</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-fainting spells</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-low blood sugar levels and hypoglycemia</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-dizziness every day</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-nauseousness every day</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-vomiting most days for no reason</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-high levels of anxiety</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-feeling overheated</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">-my skin on my arms began breaking out into rashes</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span class="text_exposed_show">HELLLLLLLOOOO?????? Wake up Jenny!!! I went to the doc searching for any solution. But it was right in front of me. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> After taking in these clues from family, friends, and how I was feeling I began to accept the weight gain. It took a CANCER DIAGNOSIS for me to really sit down and look at my life, my habits and really truly SEE myself. It all came into focus after a round of chemo where I had lost 10 pounds. I saw a picture of myself 10 pounds heavier and I became overcome with realization of what I had been doing to my body. I
had gained 60-70 pounds in 3-4 years, and I sat there with all those symptoms listed above and possible death sentence. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">So one day at a time, I changed. A simple change from soda to water allotted me a 10 pound loss. A slow implementation of physical activity (when I could with chemo), was integrated. I began to research and started learning how to cook and make healthier choices.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Now those pounds are gone. The low energy, fainting, dizziness, vomiting, rashes, napping and feelings of insecurity are gone. The CANCER is gone. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I am a better person now because I love who I am. I had to feel confident, and my body needed to be healthy to have the energy to even feel confidence, and yes, I needed to feel attractive on the outside to begin working on the inside. Yes, I will be judged for saying this, but I am only saying what I truly feel. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> I am telling you this now because I know others out their can relate. It
IS possible to change your life. You CAN break through this! You CAN be
healthy, happy and feel good about yourself. It starts with ONE SMALL
change.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">It is a Sunday night and you have ordered a pizza, curled up on your couch with your family and are watching TV. You have told yourself over and over that TOMORROW you will do something about your weight, and your health. Countless Sunday's you have spent saying that Monday begins a new week and you will get on track then. You want to do this because you feel low in energy, are lacking in confidence, maybe your clothes are not fitting the same as they used to. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Every Monday you wake up with the same determination to do it and stick to it this time! You get up, and make a healthy breakfast and head out the door and are positive this will be the day!!!....and that is where it stops. You get to work and your colleagues invite you to dine with them, or it is girl scout cookie time of year and those adorable girls are looking up at you with puppy dog eyes wanting to feed you endless boxes of thin mints, or someone has a birthday and the office is celebrating with soda and cake. So you feel overwhelmed and you give in. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Then you get upset with yourself for not being able to commit once again and you come home and order Chinese food and think of every excuse in the book to not continue: "It is ok, I am not <i>that</i> unhealthy. This is a busy time in my life and I'll start again when things calm down. This isn't THAT bad for me. I have had a hard day and I deserve to eat this." So you just binge eat and continue to feel self conscious and out of control.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">The problem is probably that you are OVERWHELMED. You decide to commit to a diet and just like most people, you try to change too much all at once. You decide to workout AND cut carbs, fats and eat low calorie foods. You are not going to eat past 7pm, and instead of going out to eat you are going to pack your lunch. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">The key for me, was committing to a new lifestyle and making slow changes that you can STICK to. Here are 5 steps to take to get you started this Monday without the overwhelmed feeling:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>1. REASONABLE WORKOUT GOALS</b> Commit to a workout of some sort 3 days a week for 30 minutes. A big mistake that is often made is that we over commit and decide we will go to the gym every day for hours on end. How sustainable is this in the long term? No wonder so many quit after the first week or even the first few days. No one has time for that. Do some research and find an effective workout with a REASONABLE goal. SOOOO many times I have seen people go in full force with nothing but good intentions, but end up stopping all together from not being able to commit so quickly to unrealistic gym goals. So do 30 minutes, 3 days a week for the first month. When this is mastered, move on.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>2. CUT OUT SOMETHING</b>. Pick ONE food group to work on. If you are like me and tend to overdo the carbs, dial it in for a month. stick to 3 or 4 healthy carb options in a day. If dessert and junk food is your problem, vow to cut out something for the month.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>3. ADD SOMETHING IN. </b>When you cut out something, you must find a replacement. There is nothing worse than cutting out something like soda and not succeeding because you need a replacement drink to help you get through the cravings. So...cutting out soda? Add in more water and drink sparkling water with lemon. Cutting out dessert? Research recipes that are natural ingredients and can satisfy your need for sweets. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>4. WRITE DOWN</b> your goals. You are 80% more likely to achieve them if you write them down. Do not try to go overboard. Make the changes written above, write them down, and just focus on those. Let your body adjust and then continue to make more changes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>5. COMMUNICATE </b>It is important when start your journey to communicate your new goals and reasons to those closest to you and those you spend most of your time with. You cannot expect them to read your mind. Sit down anyone you live with and express that you are going to make some changes and let them know what they are. Ask them to support you in your decision and to help you to stick with it. Do the same with friends, co-workers etc. When you communicate your needs, you can be more successful.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>6. ACCOUNTABILITY</b> Find someone you like and trust to hold you accountable in your new journey. This should be someone that you know, but that is not too close to you. An acquaintance or co-worker that you can check in with each day to talk about your progress. DO NOT SKIP THIS STEP!! Accountability is one of the biggest keys to your success.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Most of all, believe in yourself. Tell yourself everyday "I can, I will". Don't try too much at once. Change your lifestyle and slowly, overtime, a healthy lifestyle will just be automatic.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I believe in you. Reach out to me for help.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Jenny Beauregard </span><br />
fitoperasinger.blogspot.com<br />
fb.com/fitoperasingerAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-643562984096179232015-01-24T11:25:00.003-08:002015-01-24T11:32:00.014-08:00Success comes from the inside: lessons learned from being forced to lie in bed with just my thoughts<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">A recent injury to my intercostal muscles (the muscles in between your ribs) has really been a lesson in patience for me. I have spent nearly 2 months doing the hardest workout program in my entire life. I have pushed, cried, sweat, grunted and had to talk myself through several times of thinking I could not continue. I have broadcast my journey all over facebook so that I could keep myself accountable and finish this program. This injury (though not a big deal) is extremely painful and has caused me to discontinue my workouts for the past 3 days. This frustrates my to no end, especially after all the work I have put in to get myself in amazing shape. Normally, I would be extremely stubborn and continue to workout regardless of the injury and I would not listen to my body. I would not have enough patience to just lie on the couch all day waiting for my body to heal. But I realize that I will only further my injury if I am not patient.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">And so I am learning patience. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I am gonna be real with you. I have accepted that I cannot workout and pushed through that disappointment, however I went off course with my nutrition when I should have been eating even more strictly. I tell the people that I coach, "Nutrition is 80% of your progress. Get that under control first and foremost" and here I am eating a cupcake and way too much sushi. So I've decided to listen to my own advice, because well, it is good advice.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">Just because I have a slight setback towards my goals doesn't mean it all has to come crashing down. I let myself off the hook briefly, but I am catching myself before it gets bad. I am on track today with my nutrition, drinking my Shakeology, and eating whole foods in moderate proportions. I open a show tonight in which I am singing the lead, and it is all the more important that I eat foods that will help me heal and give me the energy I need to be my best, even with this injury. I am living proof that what you put in your body can make or break you, and hey, I am far far far from perfect and even though I believe that proper nutrition aided my eventually remission from Ovarian Cancer, I sometimes slip up and forget that powerful effect.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">So instead of wallowing in self pity over losing all the work I have put into my fitness regime, I have had some down time to reflect and do personal development. I have been able to work on myself from the inside, and really remind myself of the bigger picture. Success in any form means building yourself from the inside AHEAD of your outside so that in times of need, you can withstand the situation with grace and a strong foundation. I have reminded myself in this reflection time that character growth is more important than the physical physique I have goaled myself to reach. In these 3 days I have been able to re-focus my attention.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">1. Drink a ton of water</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">2. Read personal development and keep my mind fresh, positive and engaged</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">3. Dive in and really reach out and help more people</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">5. Re-evaluate my deep down reason "why" for ever aspect of my life</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">6. Focus on loving my husband and appreciating more openly all that he does for me</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">This means if you are a club member, you can stream workouts from a digital link ANYWHERE without those pesky DVD's skipping and scratching. Forgot your dvd's??? No problem, just use your digital version. Apple laptop doesn't have a DVD drive? PROBLEM SOLVED! This ill be a better experience for customers AND coaches. Watch the announcements here!</span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-70010060094705209482015-01-11T11:47:00.004-08:002015-01-11T11:47:51.001-08:00How to prep for 21 Day Fix in 6 steps<b><br /></b>
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<b><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Step 1: Look at your schedule</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> Decipher your schedule for the week and decide when you are busiest and going to be out of the house. You need to figure out what meals and snacks you need to have planned and ready to take wth you. Mark those in your calendar.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Make sure your look at your schedule and figure out how many simple "go-to" meals you need. Make sure your recipes include simple recipes with minimal ingredients that you can make quickly, as well as a few recipes that are fun, and tasty but would take more time to make. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"> From the recipes you've picked out for each meal, make a grocery list of everything you need. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Make rice, quinoa, etc and dice and wash fruits and veggies. Also prep anything that you can have in advance and store in the freezer until you are ready. Do this as SOON as you are home from the grocery store. Then this will be done and off your mind.</span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-23777299118727875162015-01-10T06:08:00.003-08:002015-01-10T06:15:45.620-08:00How to make hard choices<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Hard choices. That is what I am struggling with at the moment. It seems the hard choices continue to present themselves, and I spend agonizing hours going back and forth about which option is best or will end up better. Sometimes I just wish I could go into the future and see what would happen to my life based on each individual choice.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">A friend recently sent me this video with a talk about hard choices. When he sent it, I thought to myself "oh ok cool. I may listen to that one day." But it is so amazing how the right people just come into your life when you need them. About 3 hours later, I was presented with another hard choice to make. I am so glad I watched it, because even though my friend could not have known the new situation would present itself, he knew that I was struggling with others in my life and I needed to listen to this to once and for all learn how to make a choice.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Your hard choice is hard because in each choice, one is not better than the other, they both have faucets of them that are good and bad. Which is WHY it is hard. For example, in September I struggled with the choice of staying a poor opera singer, or taking a corporate job that would provide a paycheck each week and health insurance. Singing is my passion and my art, but it isn't stable and doesn't pay well. But the corporate job paid a modest income and provided stability, but the work would not be fulfilling. No one answer is BETTER than the other when compared in this way.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Sometimes you will want to take the safest option. When comparing the two side by side, I tended toward the safer option. The paycheck, the steady work, the health insurance. Fear of struggling as a singer for the rest of my life took over.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">In the end I realized the corporate job was not me, I craved the 5 minutes on stage no matter what the cost. I wanted that job because my alternate route was FEAR of the unknown. Fear almost allowed me to take the least risky option.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But in learning to be in tune with, and understand myself has created an unstoppable power in me, and made making hard choices, a bit easier. There is no right answer, and you have to trust that you made the right one for you and not out of fear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">So, reflect and know who you are. Know what you stand for. Make your choice and then become the best version of that choice. Own it and live it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: magenta; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>I am spending this month showing you various 21 Day Fix moves and not only how to MODIFY, but how to modify for an absolute beginner! You just need to keep moving! Go as slow as you need to go to get through the minute!</b></span><br />
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I tried Insanity Max 30 for the first time at our Fit4Lyfe Winter retreat last week. I have to say, I was dreading it for a few weeks. I knew that my team was offering this workout, and I did not want to be the one person not brave enough to try it. The night before the workout I did not sleep much as I had never done an extreme program before. I was happy with my 21 Day Fix and PiYo experiences. I tossed and turned and dreamed about how hard the workout would be and woke up sweating in fear.</div>
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Well the time came and I was ready. I swallowed my fear and told myself that I would live to talk about it. And I did! Actually, I kind of kicked butt at it. I surprised the heck out of myself. I actually was able to get through one of the hardest extreme workouts Beachbody had to offer. ME! The lazy one! I had underestimated myself and the hard work that I had put in to get my health and my life in order. When we finished I FELT AMAZING. I had so much energy and felt like I could conquer anything. I was super sore which I hadn't been in months, and this felt great. I knew I had really worked for it and that my body was ready for a change. I ordered my own copy of the program 30 minutes after I completed that workout.</div>
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It was a big test of mental strength to get through these two days, but I am learning so much about myself and how to push through. Today after the second workout, I was bouncing off the walls with energy. I was thinking clearly, and was motivated to go throughout my day with purpose. What a feeling!</div>
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I will post my progress pics each Monday and hope that you will follow me as I go through this program during this holiday season. Follow my journey on facebook for daily updates #jennydoesinsanitymax30</div>
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But but but.... the beer! The wine! The holiday cocktails! The stuffing! The sweet potatoes! the gravy!! The amazing christmas cookies with the Hersheys kiss in the middle!!!! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I am not saying you cannot have that. I am saying be aware of PORTION control and pick and choose your splurge days.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">1. RESEARCH your the calories in certain foods before you to an event with a big meal</span><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;">This is not to spoil your meal or make you feel guilty. It is to provide awareness so that when you serve yourself a portion, you do not accidentally eat 1000 calories in sweet potatoes alone. The average Thanksgiving meal is 4500 cals WITHOUT alcohol. Be aware. Take 2 tablespoons of cranberry sauce and half the amount of gravy. You can have those sweet potatoes but take 1/4 cup instead of a mound.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">2. Choose your splurge days:</span><span style="color: #cc0000;"> </span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;">If you eat everything in site at every single party you go to, you are destined to fall off track. Choose 3 times that you are going to have "Cheat days" and indulge that Christmas cookie or two, a chocolate martini or some sweet potato casserole. It is the holidays after all. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">3. Bring your own dish to the party:</span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;"> If you make your own dish, YOU know what is in it and you know you can eat it without guilt! Bring enough for everyone of course, you don't need to draw attention to yourself by only bringing a small portion for you. Make something yummy, healthy and guilt free and fill up on that! </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">4. Drink lots of water in between alcoholic drinks and throughout the day.</span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;"> Keep your body hydrated. Water will also help to fill you up so that you eat less. It will help you to be less drunk and then less likely to make bad eating choices throughout the event. There are like 25 different reasons I can write here. Water is awesome, so just drink it. A lot.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">5. Eat normal meals throughout the day.</span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;"> Stay on track as much as possible. The last thing you want to do is go to a holiday event famished and then stuff your face like a deprived person on a diet. Eat your breakfast, lunch and snack and then you will eat less at your event.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">6. Stick to your routine: </span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Do you workouts. Every day. If you get up early and workout then continue to do so! Many people will tell me, "oh I have been eating like crap so I stopped working out and I will start again at New Years." NO! The time is now. Keep to your routine and keep going. It is healthy to workout and your body needs it now more than ever!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">7. Eat HALF.</span> </b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Eat half eat half eat half of what you would normally eat. It is about portion control and not deprivation.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">8. You do not have to drink at every single function.</span></b><span style="color: #cc0000;"> And if you do, LIMIT your drinks to 1 or 2. If you feel you need to have some liquor to take the edge off of seeing that one relative that makes you crazy, then stick to clear liquor and club soda. The fancy drinks are so high in calorie and have no nutritional value. Steer clear of those.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #660000;">9. Have a plan</span> </b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Set up your health and fitness plan NOW. Don't just go to the gym and flail around and expect that will be effective. Do some RESEARCH and commit to a program or regime. When you have a plan that starts BEFORE the holiday season you will be more aware and make better choices overall. Maybe get an accountability partner to stay on track with and motivate each other.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">If you mess up and have a bad day, just get right back on track the next day. No one is perfect, but you can make better choices. You want to enjoy yourself. Focus on conversation and time with family and friends rather than food. The goal here is to still FEEL amazing by the end of the holiday season instead of feeling guilty, bloated and down because of all the nasty food you've consumed. Keep your eye on the prize and let that drive you!</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-87862951448115416762014-11-21T05:41:00.005-08:002014-11-21T05:41:57.920-08:00Greek Yogurt Cookie Dough: A less sinful way to get something sweet around the holidays!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyWD5YvJIO34TCTG53CI7MettXQMhkJy7viUdXZr7cJs9rZWeI1Jvzj4bGqEPuKyEqU3FUoBCh9oEmogbXstuURhVFKpuspglqyI2vS9HuBB6Ll5EulqEIMmDLhJJfmXb08wemekkbFVE/s1600/greek+yogurt+cookie+dough.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyWD5YvJIO34TCTG53CI7MettXQMhkJy7viUdXZr7cJs9rZWeI1Jvzj4bGqEPuKyEqU3FUoBCh9oEmogbXstuURhVFKpuspglqyI2vS9HuBB6Ll5EulqEIMmDLhJJfmXb08wemekkbFVE/s1600/greek+yogurt+cookie+dough.jpg" /></a><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The holidays are coming and we are scrambling around to shop and get ingredients together to bring to parties, and in the meantime we are worried about our waistline. But we have to live a little right? I know I plan to have something sweet! This recipe is so fast and easy to whip up, and will save you some calories in the dessert department (just try not to eat the whole thing because this is GOOD). I have a party coming up this weekend, and instead of watching everyone enjoy dessert with a billion calories, I will bring my own creation with enough to share for everyone! That way I know exactly what is in it, and how much I can indulge in!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #783f04;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 20px;">3/4 cup plain Greek yogurt</span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 20px;">1 tbsp nut butter</span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 20px;">1 tbsp pure maple syrup</span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 20px;">1/4 tsp pure vanilla (free fix food for those on the 21 Day Fix)</span></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 20px;">1 tbsp mini chocolate chips.</span></span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-13459609738956803522014-11-10T07:18:00.004-08:002014-11-10T07:24:42.566-08:00Facing Your Fears: Motivation from The Sound of Music after 31 years As a young girl my <i>favorite</i> movie in the WORLD was <i>The Sound of Music</i> with Julie Andrews. I would watch that movie over and over and drive my parents CRAZY with my obsession. That movie is what drove me to music. I began singing in choirs and taking lessons because of it. It is what inspired my to spend a semester of study in Salzburg where it was filmed. I learned and memorized probably every single word to that movie. That movie has shaped me in so many ways at so many different points in my life. Today, Maria's words are still playing strong in my head as I hear her words as she returns from the convent to reunite with the children: "Oh Liesl, you cannot run away from your problems, you have to <i>face </i>them!"<br />
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In my process of bettering myself and my life, I am working hard to face my problems and fears and talking about it openly. I am taking this one thing at a time and one step at a time. I hope to relate to someone, anyone in this situation and perhaps we can bond over our similar fears and create a plan to face them together.<br />
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This is the day that I have been FEARING for the past 6 months. I have lost sleep, fretted, gotten sick, looked down on myself, put this off and watched as the days crept closer and closer to facing this problem. I have literally woken up in the middle of the night sweating and having nightmares. Every time I think about it, I get a cramp in my stomach and I force myself to think of something else.<br />
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It is no secret that I have taken out student loans to pay for my degrees in music. When I began to take out loans, I did not quite understand what that meant. I did not really care actually. I wanted to pursue my passion and it did not matter what I had to do to get there. I did not read or research or pay attention to what I was doing. I signed the paper and took the money and went after a dream. I am not advocating for, or against taking out student loans. I have mixed feelings on the subject. For myself personally, I have been able to learn and do so much that I could not have done. Through being granted these loans I have met amazing people (including my husband), and filled my life with music, art, travel and education. I have become (I think anyways) a great teacher, with so much to offer my students in the way of music, singing and life. I am the person I am today because of all these experiences. But there is always a looming fear in my mind of the debt I had collected to get this life, and it sometimes hinders me so much that I cannot enjoy the life I've created. What I am advocating for today is facing my problems so that I can live a fun filled, anxiety free life.<br />
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Today, November 10 2014, is the day that I had to deal with student loan payments. After all my years in school, I am finally at that dreaded 6 month mark where it is time to start to pay. I waited until the LAST POSSIBLE DAY to deal with this. It has been a source of deep anxiety for me. Wondering how I would pay and how much. Wondering if I would need to take on 6 jobs to survive the outrageous monthly amount.<br />
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The call lasted 10 minutes including the wait time to talk to someone. A very nice lady asked me a few questions about my income and family and together we worked out a number that I could afford to pay each month. She said she would send me some follow up documents I should fill out. THAT WAS IT. It was done. The anguish and torture that compounded through WORRYING AND WORRYING about today was over in 10 painless minutes. Imagine how much anxiety and time I could have saved if I had just faced this problem months ago??<br />
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What a moment for me. What a break through for my anxiety driven personality. Afterwards, feeling so much better, I proceeded to make a list of other fears I wanted to conquer and made a plan to face those as well. I will sleep much better tonight armed with knowing that I can face my fears and survive them.<br />
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Julie Andrew's and <i>The Sound of Music</i> continue to influence my life even at my adult age. The influences change as words take on new meanings. That phrase ringing in my ears today, I probably did not even understand when I was young.<br />
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My takeaway:<br />
<b>1. Read personal development.</b> What? READ??? ME?? Listen to an audiobook. Many are free on youtube.com. This 30 minutes a day I have been putting in are actually changing my life.<br />
<b>2. ID your fear:</b> Just writing it down so you can think clearly about solutions help greatly.<br />
<b>3. Just take the first step. </b>Your fear of your fear is probably worse than actually facing it. My problem of debt is far from being solved. But I took the first step today and am now motivated to continue.<br />
<b>4. Watch</b><i><b> The Sound of Music:</b> </i>this isn't a takeaway, but seriously if you have not ever watched this movie you need to. Right now. Go.<br />
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My health and fitness journey have driven me to be a better person, and I would love to help you find your way too. Please subscribe to this blog, and "like" my Fb page fitoperasinger.facebook.com. Send me a message. REALLY! I want to hear from you!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-68926674105860815162014-11-09T11:33:00.001-08:002014-11-11T04:29:38.324-08:00Egg Muffins! Fast, easy 21 day fix approved!<div style="text-align: center;">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-91652717706931973232014-11-04T08:17:00.004-08:002014-11-04T08:17:43.865-08:00Cinnamon Roll Shakeology Recipe<div>
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I LOVE Vanilla Shakeology! I was drinking Chocolate for so long and never thought to give Vanilla try. LOVE LOVE LOVE!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Here is a recipe I just tried this morning:</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1 cup Almond Milk</span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1 Scoop Vanilla Shakeo</span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1 tsp Almond Butter</span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1 Vanilla Extract</span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1 tsp Cinnamon</span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">~1/2 a banana</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">GREAT holiday treat for when you are craving something sweet! Interested in Shakeology? Post here!</span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-70660789515894901052014-11-03T11:41:00.003-08:002014-11-03T11:41:45.816-08:00Getting Uncomfortable: Lessons and rewards from going out of my comfort zone<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This past week I was asked to be a guest on the <a href="https://clinwoodjackson.wordpress.com/tag/the-linwood-jackson-radio-show/" target="_blank">Linwood Jackson Radio Show</a> here in Delaware. I was so flattered by this opportunity, but immediately told Mr. Jackson that I had to think it over.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I have never been comfortable with public speaking. I am a performer, but typically lose my focus when I know I am being listened to and am expected to speak eloquently without a script. The thought of doing this made me nervous, and was definitely outside my comfort zone.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOD_7BA50-S-jY7Xltfcdy2hFyK50cPWUc2PVr-t1naPltMJbb9XLEBSA2lc8fN2SfKaXZMgPoAqv2YNZ1NbbBD33YTrVPhUtZSZWKyb2xCLLkiJRtDtOeoRASA3ri-WSJSRkX5nf1PAA/s1600/kiss.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOD_7BA50-S-jY7Xltfcdy2hFyK50cPWUc2PVr-t1naPltMJbb9XLEBSA2lc8fN2SfKaXZMgPoAqv2YNZ1NbbBD33YTrVPhUtZSZWKyb2xCLLkiJRtDtOeoRASA3ri-WSJSRkX5nf1PAA/s1600/kiss.jpg" height="240" width="320" /></span></a><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My wonderful husband always challenges me to do things that I am not comfortable with (when they are to better myself). He would not let me say no to this opportunity, and I am grateful to him for always pushing me. As I get older and am trying to mold my life the way I see fit, I have had to begin learning to do things outside of my comfort zone to get there. I've learned that I do not get ahead by staying my own "comfort bubble" as I call it. And it IS hard. But when you have goals and dreams you do what it takes.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So with a deep breath, I accepted the spot on the radio show. I was anxious about it, so I began to think of things he could possibly ask me, and prepared answers to those questions. I had to make sure that I was organized in my mind. This calmed me down a bit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The day came and I was ready. NERVOUS! But ready. I steadied my breathing and spoke positive thoughts to myself. I CAN do this. I AM confidant! etc etc.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This whole time leading up to this, I was worried I wouldn't sound like everyone expected. I was worried that I had to manufacture this presence that was not really me. But when I went in, I was just myself and that was enough in my book. Was I perfect at it? No. There were definitely things that I needed to work on. But I did it. And more importantly, I LEARNED from it and I grew as a person, as an artist and as an entrepreneur. I walked out feeling accomplished, brave and successful. And what is great is that I said to myself "phew, now I will know how to do this even BETTER next time." </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />There are so many times recently that I had to step out of my comfort zone. Sharing my weight loss transformation story, talking about my experience with cancer openly, starting a new job, moving to a new place, exploring new avenues with <a href="http://www.jennybeauregard.com/" target="_blank">my singing</a> and my <a href="http://www.sexisoprano.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">online magazine for singers</a>, reaching out to people I didn't know to ask questions and seek advice. Now that I think about it, you know what? A pattern is developing. The MORE I step out of my comfort zone, the MORE I am attaining my goals! I have had a few successes lately, and I believe that is the DIRECT result of getting uncomfortable.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Nothing changes if nothing changes. This concept can apply to anything. For example, if you are trying to lose weight and you workout and eat the <i>same</i> way for months and months without success you will continue to not have success. But if you need to step out of your comfort zone and CHANGE if up, you will! Try a new program, research a new way of eating, push a little harder. It is scary, but it results in getting you to your goal.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-align: left;"> Looking back, how COULD I even think to say no?? My goals are to inspire young singers to be the best they can be and to implore others to take control of their health and fitness. If I expect the people I work with on a daily basis to step up and start a fitness program that is out of their comfort zone, than I can certainly expect the same of myself and get my butt to the radio station and talk about myself for 20 minutes. :)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-align: left;">So get up. Get uncomfortable. Get successful. Share your story with us here.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">So excited to announce this to you all!</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483514545343311456noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4848668370526189755.post-89997667368827130502014-10-25T09:33:00.000-07:002014-10-25T09:33:31.999-07:00My Husband's 3-Day Refresh Results<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My husband just completed Beachbody's 3-Day Refresh Cleanse! He hadn't been feeling very well, so we decided to give it a shot. He really likes to do cleanses, but he said to me "I don't think I'm going to see or get results in just 3 days." </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He wasn't a believer.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But he followed to instructions to a T, and 3 days later....</span></div>
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